Using Authority, Capitalizing on Power

vintage woodshopI was in my first year of junior high school. That means the ripe age of 12. I had enrolled in woodshop as one of my permitted elective courses and very excited about learning how to make things.

I don’t really remember the first project we were given to work on. But I do remember the first piece of lumber I had to cut. Skinny and short for my age, I selected a hand saw from the storage rack and a board from the storage bin. Laying it out on the bench, I measured and drew a line.

With saw in one hand, holding the board with the other, I clumsily drew the teeth across the edge. Making a pile of sawdust I cut through the board. But try as I could, I could not keep the saw on the line. As the waste piece fell off, my project board had a crooked edge both across the grain and vertically.

The shop teacher came over, picked up the piece, and laid it back down. “Well,” he said, “I’ve seen better.” Then he walked off. Not more discussion. No instruction. Nothing.

Now, no doubt he was accurate and truthful.  Doubtless he had seen better.

But was that really the point?

Leadership confronts opportunities like this often, usually many times a day. Someone makes an attempt but somehow someway falls short. And leaders really, really need to remember how significantly what they say and how they respond will impact the person.

You can use your authority or capitalize on your power.

That instructor way back in junior high used his authority. He made an accurate and truthful pronouncement that passed judgment on both me and the work I had completed.

But it fixed nothing. I already knew it was not a good cut. How could it have been anything else? I had not used a handsaw before. I had been given no instruction. I tackled the job with as much enthusiasm as I could muster and focused my efforts. To be told that he had seen better remedied not one thing except to let me know that he possessed knowledge that I needed but he was not going to share it and that I had failed to live up to the rest of the human race.

Just about all of us have heard of Douglas McGregor’s X & Y theories of management. X being directive and authoritative. Y being indirect and informative. Well, there is a third not spoken of much but one under which we have all suffered. That is the SOB style, the one used by my shop teacher, is probably more widely in use than we would hope.

The use of authority, as I’ve illustrated, usually makes the one using authority feel better while making the one upon whom it was used feel worse. He could have used his considerable power (defined as the influence one has upon others) to instruct, to place things in perspective (“No problem, this is your first cut and I’ll show you how to make cuts the right way” or something like that), and to move the class along towards its implied goals of developing woodworking skills in young students.

The office of a leader is filled with nuances. There is advice and direction and then there is inspiration and motivation. There is that which is accurate and there is that which is helpful. It is not impossible to be, say, and do both at the same time.

No one is suggesting that standards be lowered or eliminated and no one is suggesting that incompetence be sanctioned. I am suggesting, however, that life and death is in the power of the tongue. We as leaders can either make things better or worse. And it depends on what we say, when it is said, and how we say it.

It does matter…and they will remember.

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4 thoughts on “Using Authority, Capitalizing on Power

  1. Wow! Good words. My SOB experience was with a band director. His judgement of me and my skills left me feeling inferior and disillusioned about music. What was a “let me show you how….” moment actually became a “there’s nothing I can do for you” beating. Interestingly I have always owned a musical instrument or two. While never fully “learning: music is my fault, the crushing of my dream rest on him.

    • Joe, thanks so much for your reply. I wish that your case and mine were isolated but sadly they are not. It’s been 52 years since the woodshop event and I have never forgotten. Authority figures usually have no idea how much influence they have over their associates. Thanks, again.

      Jack

      FYI, I’m a music lover too. I’ll never be a performing artist but I have a great time. So, pick up those instruments and play!

  2. All your words means a lot, and made me learn a lot of things.
    I read one other topic of yours, where you explained about how to treat people, you spoke about how to treat different kind of people, and you were right by saying that every other person wants get treated in a different way. This thing actually gets implied in every part of our life, be it family, friends or Office. To win someone’s heart you gotta treat that person they way he or she wants to get treated…and to understand that it takes sometime…

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